Message three of this series on a biblical perspective on Identity and Sexuality tackles the difficult but pervasive problem of pornography that effects a conservative estimate of 90% of all boys and young adult men, and an increasing percentage of women. Its is as much on the inside of the church community as it is outside. All men have fallen short and we are all wired the same way.
Rather than resorting to an analysis that exegetes meanings and words, Dre instead walks over this heavy ground with a light foot and an understanding heart that encourages us to bring this darkness out into the light. He recounts the pain and and addiction he sees in student ministry.
His central passage is 1 John 1:5-9 and also goes to Prov 27:17 where he encourages us to find some one who can be trusted and can hold us accountable for the things we view and dwell upon.
The message also references an interview given in 2011 at Northpoint Church, Atlanta, between Andy Stanley and a couple Michael Leahy and Patty Onorato. Michael opens up to his lifelong addiction to pornography that eventually lead to the loss of his marriage, his family and his job. The portion of the video viewed is recorded in this message.
Exposed - Looks that Kill
Dre finishes with the encouragement to bring the problem out into the light, to find someone who will keep you accountable, and to take practical steps with your devices and situations you find yourselves in to break the slave master control over our lives.
26 And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. 27 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it.”